It’s my MOMtor Monday at Mothering From Scratch!
Go check it out! the blessings of parenting a strong willed child
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To be honest, the timing could have been a little better. Guest posts get written and submitted long before they are published (in this case about two weeks). When I wrote the post, it was easy to see the blessings from raising two strong willed boys. This morning… not so much.
Today was one of THOSE mornings. It was the kind of morning that has me scrambling for my yelling journal because I have some things to write down.
This morning, we needed grace… like candy. It was loud and messy and chaotic, even for a Monday morning. It was everything my guest post was not. I felt like a fraud.
I strive for authenticity on my blog… for honesty even when it’s uncomfortable. Raising strong willed boys isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. It gets messy.
It’s been a long time since I first locked horns with my son in a two-day long battle over peas. That’s when I first learned the importance of picking my battles.
It’s been an even longer time since the whole hot dog incident that humbled me and taught me to see divine lessons in messy places.
But as I looked back at those stories (and the countless others too messy or too trivial to share) I began to see the bigger picture.
I could see how God uses those moments to draw me closer to Him and to help me grow. I saw how the breakthrough moments leave my boys with teachable hearts… and how the lesson God has so recently engraved on MY heart is so easily taught in that moment.
I can see God’s wisdom in giving me boys who are every bit as strong willed as I am.
With that perspective, I’m able to see the blessing once again.